Giving a talk on running
Standing in front others and talking has always been a
difficult task for me. I think it stems from the fact that I am a lot more of
an introvert and than an extrovert. Combine this with the fact that I lean heavily
toward the shy side, I guess it is little wonder that I am always major nervous
when it comes to public speaking.
Running is not exactly a sport that requires a lot
of public speaking, and working with software, well, some of the biggest
introverts in the world have found a home writing software.
Then, there was is the old saying “better people think you
are stupid, than opening your mouth and proving that you are stupid”. I guess I
just take this one to heart way too much.
I remember a couple of speeches that I gave during high
school: one in FFA and the other was in English class. For the FFA, I had to
stand in front of these FFA organization officials and talk for 10 minutes
about any topic of their choosing. I remember words coming out of my mouth, but
I don’t recall if they really made any sense. I can only assume so. I got a
passing grade for it. I certainly didn’t win the competition.
Then, there was my English class speech. I don’t even recall
the topic of my speech. I just remember how nervous that I was to be standing
in front of my peers and hoping what I said made sense. It is funny when I
think about it now. I remember my English teacher Mrs. Wallace asking for
volunteers. No hands went up so I slowly raised my hand. I figured better to go
first and have done than follow someone else and be held to their standards.
Truer words have never been spoken. Holly Sandell followed me with her speech
and talked about solving the problems of the world. I am impressed and still
remember some of her speech to today. I was also glad that I wasn’t Rod because
he went next and had a tough act to follow.
This all brings me to an email early last week from
Meredith. She asked if I was willing to speak to the Country Day Cross Country
team about running.
Now, I have passion for running, and probably second only to this
passion is talking about running. So even thou, I still get nervous standing in front of others, I still agreed.
Once on the hook, I then spent the next 5 day making bullet
points of the topics that I wanted to cover. I certainly didn’t want to talk
off the cuff.
It was a good thing that I didn’t have to shake too many
hands before talking. My palms were pretty sweating. I believe there was some sweat
popping out on my forehead.
Meredith introduced me, and I started my talk. I had been
over my bullet point list so many times that it was practically imprinted on my
brain. I still think I was talking too fast, but I made sure to do all of the
right things. I slowed down, look at the people around me, and remembered to breathe. LOL.
I talked about my first days of running and talked about the
day that I started my current running streak. I talked about the determination,
focus, and commitment that it takes to be successful. I talked about days when
running felt easy and the days when it doesn’t. I talked about pushing through
the pain that is soreness and know when it is something more. I talked about learning
to “race” and learning how to “race”. I talked about pre and post workout
routines. I finished off the speech with a Q&A session.
Afterwards, I stayed to answer any questions that they might have. I know what it
means to ask a question in front of a group, and I felt people needed an opportunity to ask their questions one on one.
Did I do a good job with my talk? Well, I give myself a “C”
for it, but I did it and I am glad that I did do it.
It is far too easy to live our lives inside a shell. We all need from time to time to crack open our shells and push through our fears. Fear
far too often stands in our way. We let it hold us back from becoming the
person that we are capable of being.
Sharing one thought at time,
The Cool Down Runner
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